Atleast Interpret your Own Life Truly

Look at this picture.....
Just stare it for a while...  
What comes to your mind..??
Some will appreciate the beauty of the photograph and some will observe the depression in the photo....
What you see and what you interpret are totally different and most of the time there are... differences. yes they exist.
People see - "What they actually are."
there feeling, their emotions and their dreams which are engraved in the burden of 'so-called' responsibilities of Life. But people live the picture which somehow, to some extent resembles their aspirations.
It doesn't matter what a picture portrays be it persons, background of the picture, colors or anything else.
When it comes to me I always see who I am, what was my aspiration and at present where am I heading. The journey I have covered so far and the journey planned so forth .
 A JOURNEY OF BEING HAPPY.......................................................................
That is how I see a 'picture'.
People Interpret - "only in those ways which make them socially acceptable."
Sometimes I do but not in most of the cases.
People have fear to accept the truth, to loose their identity. What if they are not socially acceptable? People do change their opinion, their values, ways of living life just coz they are afraid and not confident !!!!!
What an Irony ! People change People. A Contradiction too.. Think wisely.
In the end what all I need to say is Give Wings to your life and do whatever you want to.
Just feel the happiness spread all over here.

Is Love Sacred ?

Life is short then what we want from it? we meet different people in this so called "short life". But those are handful who are lucky enough to meet the "bunch of people - there beloved ones". So if we love someone why we expect something in return.
We want them growing. For this they need to change and yes I appreciate it. But what if they change actually? Are we mentally prepared for this change?    Of Course Not.... Do Believe Me..

It's a Paradox..
we want some one to change so that we increase the intensity of love and when they are done finally we hate them just coz they are not all the same; they are changed!!!!
Isn't sound contradictory?? Yes It Is..

Let me quote a example..
I am a big fan of Rahul Vaidya. when I was home in last diwali vacations I used to watch BIGBOSS. There was a participant named Rahul. I thought it was rahul vaidya so at first I liked to watch him in BIGBOSS house. But he looks to me a bully, hyper, over reactive person. I thought where is the innocence of Rahul which I always look for in this person. The CHARM was missing.
But it's O.K.I said to myself, Every one changes now it is the turn of him. But in the end I couldn't resist not to appreciate him. Here the matter is over.
After some months  I came to know he wasn't Rahul vaidya but Rahul Bhatt. At the same time this man was no longer disgusting to me.
Now Here is the dilemma condition for me...........................................
Is hate and love depend just on expectations or there is something beyond this? We expect a lot and according to fulfillment of these expectations we decide whom to love and whom to hate? It is like just we are rationalizing the things and we name it, see it, and feel it as if it is heavenly and sacred. 
Is it all shit or something else? I really cant get it and hope might not get it so early in future. I think it will take a long time.
Let's see what happens next.. a big question mark ?????????????????????

Business Mantra 1

A crow was sitting on a tree, doing nothing all day.


A small rabbit saw the crow, and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing all day long?”
The crow answered: "Sure, why not.”

So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the crow, and rested.

All of a sudden, a fox appeared,
Jumped on the rabbit... and ate it.

                                                    So Here Comes The
                                                    Business Mantra "1"
   "To be sitting and doing nothing you must be sitting very, very high up".

Wait for More Mantras.... These are simply Amazing!!!

With Love
Abhishek Bansal

Language... A short story about communication

                                                         KHALIL GIBRAN

Three days after my birth around I was looking for new worlds to the surprise and bewilderment.
My mother asked the nurse ,''is not my baby alright?''

Nurse said,''Ma'am, the baby is perfectly fine and I never ever saw a child who is born just so cheerful.''

It made me angry, I was screaming,''Mom, this is not true. My bed is hard, bitter taste of milk is bad & the midwife's breasts smell is unbearable for me. I am in very poor condition.''

But to me both mother and nurse could not understand because I was talking the language of that world from which I came.

Twenty-first day of my life priest came, sprinkle holy water on me, and said to the mom ,''You should be happy that your baby seems born priest.''

I was surprised, I told the priest,''then your deceased mother to be sad, because you were not born priest.''

Priests also could not understand my language.

Seven months later by a soothsayer my Mamma was told ,''Your son will be a great politician, it has all the qualities of a great leader.''

I had to scream in rage killing,''wrong ... I want to be a musician, musician, and besides I'll be nothing.''

Surprised at some of my language .... even at that age had no doors.

Today I'm 33 years old. Over the years my mother, nurse and priest are all dead but the prophet is still alive. Yesterday I met him at the temple entrance. He said,''I knew from the start that you become a musician,
I had predicted it in your childhood.''

I believed it to him easily, because now I do not understand the language of little kids.

With Love
Abhishek Bansal

Wo Ladki.....

chehre pe masoomiyat ka nakab odhe, aankho me pyar liye hue jahan bhar ka.
aankho ki core me chhipe ashko me, bhari hui ek parwah apne humdum ki.
Pyar to hona hi tha....................
tar jane ki aas me gota lagaya tha iss dariya me kabhi,
pata hota gar ki ye ghutan mar dalegi til-til kar, khush rah lete apni zamini haqiqat me.
dubte gaye in pyar ki gahraiyon me, na maloom tha dum ghont leti hai masoomiyat kabhi-kabhi.
har jhonke me us purwai hawa ke mahak thi soondhi si, madhoshi ke aalam me ye jahan khushnuma laga.
Kash ye bhi yad rahata mujhe ki "PURWAI HAWA" ko rok paya hai koi kabhi.
bahti rahti hai wo bhigoti hui, apne har aashiq ko prem ki bauchhar se.
Log kahte hai badi pyari hai ye "PURWAI",
'Prem ka sagar'  'mohabbat ki khan' upma di jati hai kabhi-kabhi.

Par masoom "ZANAZA" dekha hai maine ummido ka.
Pyar (!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) se use mai "VAISHYA" kahta hu.

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Abhishek Bansal

Yehi Hai Zindgi

kahi dukh bhari dastan hai, to kahi khoobsurat hai zindgi.
kabhi ek "diary ke panno" ko saheze hue, to kahi fate purane kagaj ke tukde hai zindgi.
kahi-kahi raftar-e-junoon hai, to kahi-kahi badhawas hai zindgi.
tute hue sapno ki talash hai zindgi, to kahi chhene,  hathodo ka shringar hai zindgi.
kahi eent rode se zindgi sawarta hai koi, to kahi swargik aanad ka duswapn hai zindgi.
koi bekhabar hai kathinaio se zindgi ki, bachain hai ek tute dil ki khatir,
to kahi tute hue dil ke sath guzar-basar karne ka nam hai zindgi.
koi ro raha hai apne bigde halato ko lekar, par kahi in abhishapo me aasha ki kiran hai zindgi.
koi pareshan hai khushio bhare sansar me apne ek namaloom se dard ki khatir,
to kahi isi uzad banzar me khushiyan khojne ka kam hai zindgi.
ant me ek phalshafa, ek nazaria hi to hai zindgi.
itni choti saral si to hai zindgi.
BAS YEHI TO HAI ZINDGI....

With Love
Abhishek Bansal